The Time Is Now

(Flickr Photo by Neal).
Author Note: I was going through past articles and things this past week and came across one which for some reason felt new to me (though it was written a few years back).
I know when this was written, the time to get off one's tail and get going in a positive direction was NOW (Then). But now, reading it again today, I can't help but thinking that now is just as good of a now as then was as a now.

The article is an excerpt from "The Time For Me Is Now" as well as from "The Unmotivated Collection." 

So for now, here is The Time Is Now...
The Time Is Now
by David Stoddard

This is it. This will be MY year. Now is the time. No more wishing for things to happen. No more feeling sorry for myself. No more planning and planning and planning and even more planning. No more false starts.  No more waiting for someone else to make me happy. This will be a year filled with shining moments.

And I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna start right here and right… after I read this column.

During the past few weeks, I've been able to "talk" with different people. Many folks have written me about plans for the coming year. And I couldn't help but notice how much of a sincere belief many of them have in what they are thinking of doing.

There are some who are starting a business which they have always thought of doing, but for some reason didn't think they had the time or the talent to do. Several have started business type activities in the past, but perhaps didn't quite feel interested enough in what they were doing or didn't see positive results fast enough.

There are others who have begun to see that there is hope for a better life out there. Maybe they've been waiting for others to do things or make the decisions for them, but after waiting and waiting, have gotten to the point of now is the time. They understand that no one is going to do it for them, except themselves.

Even more are getting involved with their community or different groups of people with similar interests. Working with people at a job is one thing, but being involved with those striving to make the world a better place can be so much more rewarding.

A couple of people have said they are going to take those art classes or car maintenance classes which they have always wanted to take, but never did. One or two have said they are planning on going back to school.

I've also talked with people who have so many ideas of what they would like to do or get involved with or take up or be a part of, but they just don't have the time (so they say). I admit, sometimes there just isn't time to do everything, but that doesn't mean you can't get started with something.

As we've seen throughout our lives, when we begin something, (especially things we don't really care to do) things have a way of taking on a life of their own. It can become difficult to stop or get out of. Kinda like being the family taxi. All you had to do was do it one time, and it becomes yours seemingly forever.

Doing something you like to do, can work the same way. Maybe you start off with something as small as making an ornament or a decoration for a gathering. If enough people talk about it enough, it might be the push you need to do more of that.

Maybe you just want to get out of the rut of waking up, go to work, come home, go to sleep, wake up, go to work, come home, go to sleep…. Taking a class might be an answer. You don't have to join a whole group or anything, just get out and try something different. The added benefit besides what you might learn is you never know who you may meet. You never know how or when your life can change.

For those with the motivation to do what you've always wanted to do and feel this is the year, best of luck to each of you. For those on the fence, go ahead and test things out a bit. See what life might be like on the other side. For the rest who are wondering and wondering, the best time to do it, is now.

Because, if not now ………. When?
 

The article can also be found in  "The Time For Me Is Now" at Amazon or in "The Unmotivated Collection" for the Kindle at Amazon or the Nook at  Barnes & Noble

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David Stoddard
The Unmotivated Motivational Writer www.djstoddard.com
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Unmotivated Motivational Moments (#001)

Getting Started For Writers And Others
 

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The Unmotivated Motivational Writer www.djstoddard.com
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Snow Came Back To Visit. Grrrrr

Ok Sun, It's now up to you to melt some of this stuff. I've done my part.

Download now or watch on posterous
snow_day.wmv (1497 KB)

 

How To Expertly Expect the Unexpected

(Expectations image courtesy of Roland via Flickr)

1. Understand, It Happens.

2. Find the benefit or learning opportunity

3. If lemons, make (you know the rest)

4. If it's too good, go with it anyway (you probably deserve a break)

5. Go with the flow... But

6. Be ready to adjust your course as needed.

7. Celebrate it.

8. Honor it.

9. Believe in what you are doing and why you are doing it.

10. Keep on rockin.

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David Stoddard
The Unmotivated Motivational Writer www.djstoddard.com
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Time To Reassess Our Expectations From The Beginning Of The Year.

(Expectations image courtesy of Roland at Flickr).

Welcome to February. I know some of you got to this moment in time before I was able to post this. That just makes you an overachiever. Congrats on that.
Today as I folded up the January page of the calendar to reveal a young zebra with it's mother (could be father, uncle, aunt, older brother or sister, cousin, or just maybe that nice zebra from down the hill across from the Jones' ranch, who's to say,) I welcomed a new page titled... F E B R U A R Y (shocking, I know).

1/12th(ish) of the year has past, and looking at the stickies in the picture you see, I can't help but wish I had done something like that instead of just taking last year's ideas and moving them to the New and Improved notebook for 2011. Sorry, there really isn't a new notebook. Just went into my corny advertising pitch voice for a moment there. I didn't expect that.

What I did expect was listing ways of updating expectations and putting them into a sort of plan. A strategy. A set of steps worded in such a way that there is a chance they make sense and are helpful when action is taken.

Since that didn't quite happen, here is a short list of ideas from the top of my brain to the screen of your computer of what to do in order to move forward in a realistic manner this year around.

See where you are - This is where you must start from. There is no way around it. Now is the time. This is the moment. This is where it's at. (and not trying to steal a popular beer's new tag line, but...) Here We Go.

See where you've been - If you're like me, you haven't tracked your progress over time from year to year. But maybe it's time to start. Pick an area. Write down your past situation. Give it a place. Date. Time. 

See where you're target is this year - Get it in mind. On paper. On screen. Written down. Printed out. Posted everywhere. See it. Live It. Be it... even though you may not be there yet.

See the steps on the way to your target -  Follow a path of short actions. Trace the landmarks. Keep them close. Keep it simple. Keep them real. Keep them relative. Keep them so you'll do them.

See yourself as successful -  Yes. Cliché moment. Act as if you have already achieved what you are after. (Just don't spend the millions from the lottery until it's actually in the bank).
Finally, as a bonus step, Be The Ball.
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David Stoddard
The Unmotivated Motivational Writer www.djstoddard.com
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